Relationship Bootcamp
RLT Certified Facilitators and Coaches
A Transformative 2-Day Workshop in
Santa Barbara, California
for Couples and Individuals
Couples Registration
Couples $1500
Individual Registration
Individual $750
Make 2025 the year you transform your relationship.
January’s Bootcamp is SOLD OUT
Registration for our April 2025 Bootcamp is now open.
Learn the essential skills to improve communication, resolve conflict, and build intimacy.
April 5th & 6th, 2025
Santa Barbara, California
Cabrillo Pavilion
9am – 5pm
Saturday and Sunday
Certified Relational Life Therapy Coach
RLT, & DARTT Certified Therapeutic Coach
Who Should Attend?
- Couples seeking to enhance their bond, improve communication, and maintain intimacy. Engaged, newlyweds, and long-term partners are all appropriate for this workshop.
- Individuals aiming to break through barriers to intimacy and foster more meaningful connections. One person making different moves can significantly change a relationship.
- Mental health professionals interested in deepening their understanding of the Relational Life Therapy (RLT) model, improving their efficacy when working with couples, and want to facilitate their own Relationship Bootcamps.
This workshop is open and inclusive to everyone, with the facilitator ensuring a safe, respectful, and dignified environment for participants of all races, sexual orientations, genders, religions, and nationalities.
Couples Registration
Couples $1500
Individual Registration
Individual $750
This is an authorized presentation of Terry Real’s Relational Bootcamp, using the skills and principles from his Relational Life Therapy (RLT) model.
What Can You Expect from the Relationship Bootcamp?
RLT is a highly effective approach to relationship therapy developed by internationally recognized therapist and bestselling author Terry Real. The skills you acquire will empower you to forge and maintain meaningful connections. You will engage in a mix of lectures, small group activities, and personal reflections. Lori will provide personalized support to enhance your learning experience.
You will have a mid-day lunch break of 1.5 hours to have lunch on your own.
We will take breaks, and you will be able to walk out the door and walk along East Beach, taking in the beautiful oceanfront.
Do I Need This?
Why Dedicate a Weekend to Your Relationship?
Long-term relationships in the 21st century require a set of skills that our parents didn’t teach us, our schooling didn’t teach us, and our society doesn’t teach us. Research indicates that the quality of our relationships is a significant predictor of longevity and our physical health. Relationships require effort, but many of us are unsure about what that effort entails. The true work of relationships isn’t occasional; it happens moment by moment. How do you work at the minute-to-minute level? I will teach you.
This workshop will equip you with the essential skills needed for those critical interactions that foster genuine intimacy. This small group setting is designed for expert guidance and ample opportunity for questions and personalized dialogue with Lori. While this isn’t a magic solution that resolves every issue, past participants have described the experience as life-changing and transformative for their personal lives and relationships.
Register Now for this Transformational Event Before it Fills up!
Are you interested in more information to see if the RLT Bootcamp is right for you?
Payment plans available
By the end of the two days you’ll have the skills to:
- Override your knee-jerk reactions in heated moments to navigate conflict calmly.
- Break free from the losing strategies that block you from enjoying true intimacy.
- Complain without blame and get more of what you want from your relationship.
- Encourage, not discourage, your partner’s efforts, and celebrate progress.
- Let go of the battle of who’s right and work together to find a solution.